There have been times where people have appreciated you even though you felt undeserving. On the other hand, there have been many times where people have scolded you when you truly believe that you did nothing wrong for them. What’s the meaning of life? You are challenged to think one day about your life and its objectives. Can you?
Yes, it’s so natural to be a “ People Pleaser”. Are you a people pleaser? A people pleaser is a one of the most helpful people you know. They never say “no” and one can always count on them. However, such kind of people will spend great deal of time, money and effort doing things for other people. We love to engage more with the people around us. Sometimes, we follow them.
Are you thinking about what other people think of you? Do you often make decisions based on what you think will please others? According to my opinion, I always believe, I am who I am.
“ I used to care about what other people’s opinions but then I realize they don’t pay my bills”.
So, stop worrying about what other people think about you. Be yourself. Exchange your sorrow, happiness with the honest and positive people around you. Good people are the worthiest. However, you can’t let other’s opinions control your everyday life. Focus on what you want to do with your life. Don’t worry about what they said about your life. You have the power to take decisions and make them superior. Growing up isn’t easy and people are so different. It’s impossible to please everyone, so why not just please yourself instead?
To be honestly, this will probably sound very strange, but I think it’s the truth. “ When I realized that it wasn’t other people’s opinions that define ‘who I am’, I am most definitely suffered from low-self-esteem”. I just quoted it. We can value our own autonomy and logic. When I was reading this statement, I felt it was so important to share it with others.
“ I got smart enough to realize that life isn’t about what other people care about me. Rather life is about how much I do care about people. I am blessed with very sensitive caring personality. That is the core and essence of my being. By nature, I do things right. This is what I love to do. And guess what? People still do find cause to criticism and complain. It is very evident that it cannot be for me to care what people think about me. I needed to find another passion in my life. There are people who need me to think about them with tenderness and kindness. That makes me happy and satisfied. This makes people’s heart sing for joy. What more could we ask of life?” (quoted from Quora, & written by Babara Tenn Kinn, Research and Development, 2002-present)
Be polite, be thankful and say sorry. Watch your health, be smart and always try to share positive vibes.
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